Saturday, October 28, 2017

9 Inexpensive Ways to Spruce Up Your Home for Fall and more...

Guest post from Kristin of Peppermints and Cherries: Fall is such a beautiful time of year! The crisp, cool mornings, and the way sunlight hits the trees create a perfect environment to put a spring in your step. While that […]

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9 Inexpensive Ways to Spruce Up Your Home for Fall

Guest post from Kristin of Peppermints and Cherries:

Fall is such a beautiful time of year! The crisp, cool mornings, and the way sunlight hits the trees create a perfect environment to put a spring in your step.

While that spring is in your step and you have all that extra energy, it's time to spruce up your home for fall without breaking the bank!

Here are nine free (or very frugal) ways to help you feel more contented with that little place you call home.

1. Sweep the porches, carport/garage, and shed.

I like to take a brisk walk in the mornings, and sweeping is a perfect chore to complete after that walk. Daily or at least every-other-day sweeping will keep the outside of your home looking fresh and keep those leaves and creepy crawlers from piling up in the corners.

2. Vacuum the blinds.

The blinds… a chore we all try to ignore and avoid! However, fall is the best time of year to pull out that vacuum and remove allergy-causing dust!

3. Declutter a closet or a room.

Decluttering a closet or a room is not only a great way to spruce up your home for fall, but it can actually help you make extra cash for the Christmas season or pay off some of those extra monthly bills that always creep up unexpectedly.

How, you may ask? Well, once you collect all the items you no longer use, have a yard sale or participate in a consignment sale. I have had two yard sales this year and have participated in a spring and fall consignment sale for children's items.

Consistent decluttering, especially around the changing of seasons, will keep your home in nice working order.

4. Hang a new shower curtain liner.

No matter how often you clean your bathroom, that plastic shower curtain separating the shower from your decorative cloth curtain is going to stink at some point!

Fall is the perfect time of year to replace a stinky plastic curtain, and you can do so for under $10. Definitely a cheap but needful spruce up for fall!

5. Plant a flower in a pretty pot.

I love planting flowers and making things look lovely outside, but the last few months I haven't had as much time to work on my gardening skills. Planting a flower in a pretty pot can go a long way in the outward appearance of a home's front porch.

6. Diffuse autumn scented essential oils.

Diffusing oils is probably the most expensive suggestion on this list, especially if you diffuse high quality oils, but I still believe diffusing is cheaper than buying expensive name brand candles, and it's a lot healthier. If you do your research, you can even find recipes for combining oils to make those wonderful fall scents like pumpkin pie and snickerdoodle!

7. Hang fall outdoor flags and door decorations.

I usually replace my summer flags on a yearly basis due to sun fading, but most of the time I can get a couple years of use out of my fall flags.

If your doors are covered by some type of overhang, sun exposure is minimized on your door decorations, and they can be used for years. Last year I bought a cute little owl for my front door at an outdoor craft event and sold my older wreath at a yard sale!

8. Dust and trade out summer décor for fall décor.

If you have a mantle or a special shelf for seasonal décor, fall is the perfect time to get rid of those dust bunnies hiding behind things and trade out your décor.

Of course dusting is a chore not just for fall, but we all have those areas that we don't dust every week, and fall is the time to take things down and rearrange!

9. Purchase a pumpkin or two or three!

I usually don't buy pumpkins at the grocery store, but my little boy was so excited to purchase a pumpkin the other day at Aldi, so I bought one very inexpensively, and it looks as pretty as pie next to our front porch!

With Christmas coming up, no one wants to spend a lot of money sprucing up their home for fall, so I hope these simple suggestions will give you some motivation and excitement to spruce up your home on the cheap!

Kristin is just a southern girl whose daily desire is pleasing God with the gifts and abilities He has given her. She blogs for fun at Peppermints and Cherries; and while she has enjoyed distance learning and traditional classroom teaching in years past, her current occupations include wife, mommy, piano teacher, and church musician. She loves DIY projects, trying new recipes, planting flowers in pots, learning new skills, and decorating with eclectic style. 

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Brigette’s $77 Grocery Shopping Trip and Weekly Menu Plan for 6

Aldi

2 boxes Raisin Bran – $3.30

1 40-oz jar Peanut Butter – $2.49

1 jar Duke’s Mayonnaise – $3.09

1 jar Dijon Mustard – $0.89

1 24-oz bag Chocolate Chips – $2.79

2 Avocados – $1.38

2 Pomegranates – $1.38

2 gallons Whole Milk – $3.12

1 Honey Bear – $2.79

1 8-oz pkg Cream Cheese – $0.65

1 pkg Turkey Bacon – $1.89

1 32-oz carton Plain Nonfat Greek Yogurt – $3.29

1 1-lb pkg Butter – $2.25

1 head Cabbage – $1.19

1 pkg Broccoli Crowns – $1.39

2 3-ct pkgs Colored Peppers – $5.10

1 2-oz pkg Parsley – $1.59

2 16-oz pkgs Baby Carrots – $1.10

1 bag Red Grapes (3.80lbs @ $0.79/lb) – $3.00

1 bag Frozen Raspberries – $1.85

1 can Decaf Coffee – $2.99

1 bag Lemons – $1.79

1 pkg Celery – $0.59

2 heads Cauliflower – $3.78

2 2-lb bags Honey Crisp Apples – $4.98

1 pkg Romaine Hearts – $1.59

1 bunch Bananas (2.61lbs @ $0.38/lb) – $0.99

1 pkg Zucchini – $1.45

2 loaves Bread – $1.30

3 dozen Eggs – $1.08

Total: $62.07

Harris Teeter

3 pomegranates, reduced – $1.00 (Of course, I found these AFTER I’d already bought pomegranates at Aldi! But the more the merrier. :))

2 can Well Yes! Soup -$2.98, used 2 $0.75/1 Campbell’s Well Yes! Soup – 10-1-17 SS (exp. 11/26/17) (doubled) – FREE after coupons

1 bag Pillsbury Bread Flour – $3.39

1 jar Liquid Smoke – $2.19

2 bags Frozen Cauliflower – $2.50

4 bags Picsweet Frozen Vegetables – $5.36, used 2 $1/2 Pictsweet Farms Southern Classics or Farm Favorites frozen vegetables, SS 10/01 – $3.36/4 bags after coupons

2 boxes Microwave Popcorn – $2.79

Total after Coupons: $15.23

Grocery Total for the Week: $77.30

Weekly Menu Plan

Breakfasts

Everyone is responsible for making/cleaning up their own breakfast. Choices include:

Fruit, Yogurt, Scrambled/Fried/Boiled Eggs, Veggies Omelets, Toast, Cereal, Oatmeal, Pumpkin Chocolate Chip Muffins

Lunches

Leftovers x 4

Grilled Cheese Sandwiches, Fruit, Raw Veggies with Dip x 2

Tossed Salad Bar

Dinners

Hosting a Soft Pretzel/Cookie Party at our Home (I’ll probably feed my kids some fruits and veggies ahead of time – but won’t make a real dinner that night). I’m serving Never Fail Saucepan Brownies (favorite recipe from a dear friend), Mall Pretzels (I’ll make some with kosher salt, and some with cinnamon/sugar) and several kinds of homemade dipping sauces (I’m thinking a Honey Mustard Sauce, a Cheese Dip, and a sweet Cream Cheese Dip)

Chinese Chicken Fried Rice (I substitute my own veggies based on my family’s preferences), Fruit Salad

Venison Roast in the Crockpot (My husband got his first deer of the season last week!), Mashed Cauliflower, Roasted Carrots, Pumpkin Crescent Rolls

Fluffy Pancakes, Scrambled Eggs, Fruit Salad, Turkey Bacon

Ham and Bean Soup, World’s Best Honey Cornbread

Soup Night: Hamburger Vegetable Soup, Cheesy No Cheese Trimmy Bisque (recipe from “Trim Healthy Table” cookbook), Cheesy Flower Biscuits (Trim Healthy Table)

Leftovers

    
 

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Friday, October 27, 2017

When You Don't Get That Thing You Really Want

Earlier this week, I didn't get an opportunity that I was hoping for. I really wanted it. I had hoped it would happen. But, ultimately, I didn't make the cut. And when I saw the online influencers who did make […]

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When You Don’t Get That Thing You Really Want

Earlier this week, I didn’t get an opportunity that I was hoping for. I really wanted it. I had hoped it would happen.

But, ultimately, I didn’t make the cut. And when I saw the online influencers who did make the cut, I have to admit that I struggled with self-doubt, insecurity, and comparison.

Why wasn’t I picked? What is wrong with me? Am I not a good enough writer? Am I just not interesting enough? Maybe I’m not funny enough? Maybe I need to change my posts and my videos to be more like xyz blogger?

You guys. I know that all sounds silly and ridiculous. But in the moment, it was very real.

I felt like I just didn’t measure up to this much more interesting, well-spoken, funny, charismatic individuals. All I could see was the fact that I didn’t make the cut. That I didn’t get picked.

Comparison will do that to you. It always does. It will discourage you, tear you down, whispers lies about how you’re not good enough, and will keep you from being able to celebrate other people.

I know that “Comparison is the thief of joy.” I know it all too well. But it doesn’t mean that I’m immune to comparison.

And I’m guessing some of you can relate — especially when it comes to finances. For example:

  • Maybe you are really struggling to make ends meet and it’s hard for you to not feel discouraged when you look at someone else and where they are financially compared to where you are.
  • Perhaps you are stuck in a job that you really don’t like at all while your friend recently got an amazing new job with incredible pay and hours and benefits that she loves.
  • Maybe you look around at your old house with worn down furniture and you feel envious of your relative who recently bought a new house and new furniture.
  • Perhaps you are driving an old beater car that has been on its last leg for a long time and you find yourself feeling frustrated that your co-worker was able to buy a shiny new car recently.
  • Maybe you're working so hard to get out of debt and making so many sacrifices to do so and your sister keeps going on and on about how hard it has been to figure out all of the details for trip they are planning to Disney.

In each of these cases, comparison can keep you from being able to celebrate others and something in their life that is exciting. And who gets hurts by this? Ultimately, it’s YOU who gets hurt.

I know that in my case with the recent not-getting-picked situation, I was the one who suffered because of my comparison. I couldn’t be excited that other people got picked. I couldn’t be happy for them.

I couldn’t focus on the amazing blessings in my life or the fact that I get so many incredible opportunities — like the fact that I have a blog that earns a full-time income for our family and that I get to set my own hours and have so much flexibility.

Nope, I couldn’t see any of that. Because I was stuck selfishly comparing myself and feeling sorry for myself and feeling inadequate.

4 Steps to Break Out of the Comparison Funk

When I was stuck in this place of comparison, I quickly recognized how unhealthy and unproductive my mindset was, and here’s what I did instead:

1. Call It For What It Is

I had to acknowledge that I was stuck in the comparison trap.

Sometimes, we can get so self-focused and become victims of our circumstances that we don’t even realize that we are the ones who are bringing a lot of frustration on ourselves because we’re focusing on comparison versus cultivating contentment.

2. Remind Yourself of the Truth

Your worth is not dependent upon what other people think of you, how much money you have, the position you have at work, how many people read your blog, or whether or not you get asked to participate in that opportunity.

Don't buy into the belief that says you don't have anything to offer. Don't believe the lie that says you were passed over for that promotion or have chronic illness or struggle with infertility or are in a difficult marriage or are still single in your 40's because you aren't good enough.

The truth is: you have gifts and talents and unique perspective that no one else on the planet has. You are the only YOU in existence.

The world needs your story. The world needs your gifts. The world needs you.

I reminded myself of this this past week and reminded myself that while my gifts and skills and talents are different than others and while my blog and social media and the way I do live videos aren’t for everyone, it is for some people and I need to focus on being ME — instead of thinking that maybe if I’m more like other people then I’ll get chosen for certain opportunities.

3. Choose to Celebrate Others

This is sometimes hard to do. I get it. When someone gets the very thing we were wishing and hoping for, the last thing we want to do is be happy for them.

But there's so much joy in being committed to being a cheerleader versus being a criticizer. There are plenty of opportunities to go around.

And honestly? Sometimes the very thing we want so badly is actually the thing that could end up wrecking our life — or at least making things really difficult.

Last week, I decided to stop feeling sorry for myself for getting “passed over” and instead focus on being excited for the people who got chosen. It was amazing how this simple act changed my heart and mindset.

4. Count Your Blessings

We all — no matter where we are in life — have something to be grateful for. And those of us who readily have access to clean water, have food in our bellies, know how to read and write, have a roof over our head, and have the ability to find gainful employment opportunities… we have SO much to be grateful for!

I decided to stop feeling frustrated over not getting this opportunity and instead choose to stop and count my blessings. And oh my goodness! What a long list of blessings I have!

You guys, these four steps made such a difference for me! And while I am embarrassed to share this story with you (especially because it’s silly that I’m 36 years old and still struggling with these kinds of things!), but I wanted to share it with you in hopes that it would encourage you the next time you are tempted to feel left out or discouraged or frustrated because of comparison.

P.S. Need some further encouragement? Read my article from 2015 called When She Gets That Thing You Really Wanted.

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