Monday, April 18, 2016

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The Greatest Gift You Can Ever Give Someone (and it’s FREE!)

Show Up -- It's One of the Greatest Gifts You Can Give

Over the last year, a few of my dearest friends have walked through some of the greatest struggles and most intense grief of their life.

Because I’m by nature a doer and a fixer, I want to be the Solutions Girl. I want to swoop in and make everything better. I want to wave a Magic Wand and take away all the hard from them.

But the reality is that I’ve been powerless to fix the situation, heal their broken hearts, or take away their anguish and hurt.

The one thing I could do? I could show up and give the gift of myself.

Show Up -- The Gift of Your Presence is the Greatest Gift You Have to Give

Showing up and giving of ourselves is one of the most valuable gifts you can give — and often, it’s the one that is the hardest. It’s the gift that says, “I’m not here to try to change or fix or solve; I’m just here. And I’m not going anywhere.”

In the midst of others’ grief and loss, we often want to slap on bandages and trite phrases so that we can feel like we’ve “done something”.

However, the greatest gift we can give is not “the perfect word” or “the perfect solution”. As I’m slowly learning, in the middle of intense grief, there really aren’t any words that will be perfect.

Show Up & Give It Your All

No, the greatest gift we can give is the gift of our presence. To show up again and again.

Practically speaking, this might be:

  • To just sit with someone in their pain, listen to them, look into their eyes, and say, “I’m so sorry.”
  • To send them that text to let them know we’re thinking of them.
  • To call them to pray with them or ask how they are doing.
  • To drop off flowers or coffee or a note of encouragement at their door.
  • To order pizza for them for dinner or to make a simple meal and drop it off.
  • To hug them and hold them and let them ugly cry on your shoulder.
  • To pick up their groceries or run an errand or watch their kids or clean their house.
  • To send a little note in the mail or an email to let them know we care.

However it practically plays out, the most important thing is that we show up without an agenda or a quick fix or a solution. We just show up to remind someone that they are seen and noticed and loved. And we keep showing up — even when maybe no one else is.
Show Up & Give Your All

We can’t show up like this for everyone we know or we would be exhausted and spread too thin. But I challenge you to step outside your comfort zone, and look for one or two people who are hurting in your life right now.

Find one simple way to show up for them today. To give the gift of your presence — with no strings attached. To let them know that you are there for them, you love them, and you are walking with them as best as you know how.

There’s a powerful bond that is forged when we are willing to give the gift of ourselves like this. It doesn’t cost us anything financially, but it’s one of the greatest gifts we have to give.

Notes:

  1. The first quote is from the book: A Life of Being, Having, and Doing Enough by Wayne Muller.
  2. I recommend the book, Just Show Up, if you need further encouragement & practical ideas.
  3. The second quote is from the book: Rising Strong by Brene Brown (such a great book!)
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6 Ways to Save on your Weight Loss Journey

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Guest post from Jessica of The Failed Dieter

Have you ever set out to lose weight and get into shape, only to find out that, while your pants might be feeling bigger, your wallet isn’t?

Did you end up crashing and burning after adding up the costs of gym memberships, fresh fruits and vegetables, workout clothing, and fitness gear?

My name is Jessica Bowman, and I am a failed dieter! After trying about every diet under the sun, I finally figured out how to lose 50 lbs the healthy and happy way, all while remaining frugal.

Here are 6 ways I have saved money while on my weight loss journey:

1. Make a meal plan.

I have experimented with pre-made meal plans in the past, but now I make my own each week.

First, I look to see what I have in my kitchen. Then, I search some of my favorite healthy food sites and cookbooks for recipes using these ingredients. This helps me use what I have in my pantry, saving me money while still getting to try some new and exciting dishes.

I cook or pre-cook everything on Sunday mornings, and this makes weeknight cooking a breeze.

My husband and I used to be so tired after working and then working out; we'd be tempted to get a pizza or fried chicken from the endless supply of restaurants nearby. But thanks to meal planning, we can save money and calories by just heating up our healthy dinner!

2. Shop at big box stores.

I LOVE Sam's Club when it comes to buying healthy foods! I'm sure the other big box stores like Costco and BJ's have great healthy items as well.

Not only do they have excellent buys on meat, but Sam's Club also has amazing buys on produce and individual-sized snacks, too!

Some of my favorites are the Hormel fully-cooked Black Label bacon, the Planters individual size peanut packs, and giant bags of Mandarin oranges. You can even order your groceries online and go pick them up. Which brings me to…

3. Buy groceries online.

Did you know that some grocery stores will let you shop for your groceries online and then pick them up either inside or curbside? This can save you a lot of time when it comes to shopping for healthy groceries!

A frugal friend of mine and I disagree about this money-saving tip because there is a $5 charge for this at my local grocery store. However, I usually only shop on "free" weeks or can justify the $5 very easily. For one, that's at least an hour of time I will not have to spend at the grocery store, and my time is valuable to me. However, the main money-saving feature for me is I don't get distracted by impulse buys.

Last week I created my meal plan for the week and saw that I only needed to buy $8 worth of additional items to complete my grocery list. With some breakfast items it grew to $22, but that still wasn't enough to justify an online shopping trip to me. I asked my husband if he could pick up these items in the store instead so we could save our $5. He came out with over $50 in groceries! We definitely save time and money on our healthy groceries by shopping online.

4. Make a thrifty home gym.

Whether you turn your laundry bag into a punching bag or find free workout videos on YouTube, it can actually be pretty easy to give yourself a space to workout at home.

You just have to have enough literal space (and don't forget that cleaning burns calories, too!)!

5. Take advantage of the outdoors.

Did you know there is a free gym that everyone can join? It's called nature!

When the weather is nice outside, nothing can keep me indoors! I want to be out in it as much as possible, whether it be walking, jogging, hiking, swimming, or even playing a sport or game like Pickleball or Disc Golf.

If you're good at sports, you can check out some sites like Meetup or Facebook for some fun intramural sports activities in your area. If you aren't, you might find lots of great walking or hiking trails or parks in your area.

Most high schools have walking tracks around their football fields you can go to for free!

6. Make money with your big-purchase items.

Did you know you can make money with FitBit?

I used yard sale earnings to buy my Fitbit Flex two years ago, but it still felt like a huge purchase to me. I was determined to make my money back on it! Little did I know, having a fitness activity tracker is actually an awesome way to make some extra money and earn prizes and rewards.

No, you're not going to get rich, but being able to earn money just for walking is a great motivator, and your Fitbit will at least be able to pay for itself! I have paid for my FitBit many, many times over!

By making small changes, I was able to change my bad habits into good habits and lose 50 lbs without hurting my wallet!

How have you managed to save money on your weight loss journey?

Jessica Bowman is a weight loss blogger who loves to eat and hates to exercise. In 2014, she decided to stop dieting and start living a healthy lifestyle and managed to lose 50 lbs in the process. She lives in North Carolina with her husband and two dogs. Her favorite pastimes include watching 80s new wave music videos, creating lighter versions of Southern comfort food, and putting Lisa Frank stickers on everything! You can find her at The Failed Dieter.

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Amazon.com: Cuisinart Portable Outdoor Tabletop Grill for just $109.99 shipped!

Get the Cuisinart Portable Outdoor Tabletop Grill for just $109.99 shipped today!

Amazon has this Cuisinart Portable Outdoor Tabletop Grill on sale for just $109.99 shipped today! This is a huge price drop and the best price we’ve ever seen on it!

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You can also grab this Cuisinart 14-Piece Deluxe Stainless Steel Grill Set to go with it for just $19.96!

Both of these deals are valid today only, April 18, or while supplies last.

Sign up for a free trial of Amazon Prime to get free 2-day shipping.

Psst! Don't forget you can sign up for Swagbucks to earn free gift cards to use on deals on Amazon.

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Gymboree: Up to 70% off clearance + free shipping!

Get up to 70% off clearance items + free shipping on all orders!

Gymboree is offering up to 70% off clearance items right now + free shipping on all orders! No coupon code is required.

I see dresses for less than $15, shirts for less than $10, plus much more!

Valid through April 20, 2016.

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Amazon.com: Up to 60% off Belkin Surge Protectors

Get up to 60% off Belkin Surge Protectors right now on Amazon!

Amazon is offering up to 60% off Belkin Surge Protectors today. There are four varieties to choose from, with prices starting as low as $5.49!

Sign up for a free trial of Amazon Prime to get free 2-day shipping.

Psst! Don't forget you can sign up for Swagbucks to earn free gift cards to use on deals on Amazon.

Valid today only, April 18, while supplies last.

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Amazon.com: Singer Simple Sewing Machine with Automatic Needle Threader for just $95.99 shipped!

Get this Singer Simple Sewing Machine with Automatic Needle Threader for just $95.99 shipped -- the lowest price ever on record!

Amazon has this Singer Simple Sewing Machine with Automatic Needle Threader on sale for just $95.99 shipped today — the lowest price ever on record!

Valid today only, April 18, or while supplies last.

Sign up for a free trial of Amazon Prime to get free 2-day shipping.

Psst! Don't forget you can sign up for Swagbucks to earn free gift cards to use on deals on Amazon.

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Sam’s Club: Free $10 gift card with membership sign-up or renewal

Get a free $10 gift card when a Sam's Club membership sign-up or renewal!

Sam's Club is currently offering a free $10 gift card when you sign up as a new member or renew your current membership.

Thanks, SwagGrabber!

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New Glade Coupons and Rebates!

CVS: Free Speed Stick Gear Deodorant

Get free Speed Stick Gear Deodorant at CVS right now!

You can get free Speed Stick Gear Deodorant at CVS right now:

Buy 1 Speed Stick Gear Deodorant at $4, Get $2 ECBs (Limit 2)
Use $2/1 printable
Free after coupon and ECBs

Thanks, Freebies For A Cause!

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Target: Seventh Generation Baby Wipes for just $1.12!

Get Seventh Generation Baby Wipes for just $1.12 each at Target right now!

You can get a nice deal on Seventh Generation Baby Wipes at Target right now:

Buy 2 Seventh Generation Baby Wipes at $2.99 each
Buy One, Get One 25% Off
Use 2 $1/1 coupons from the 4/10 RedPlum insert
Stack with $1/1 Ibotta rebate
$1.12 each after sale, coupons, and rebate

Thanks, For The Mommas!

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IHOP Pancake Revolution: Join for three free pancake meals!

Sign up for the IHOP Pancake Revolution to get three FREE pancake meals!

Sign up for the IHOP Pancake Revolution, and you’ll get three free pancake meals:

  • One right away, just for signing up.
  • One every year on the anniversary of your sign-up date.
  • One every year on your birthday.

How can you go wrong with FREE pancakes?!

    
 

CVS: Deals for the week of April 17-23, 2016

Here are the best deals at CVS this week, with a big thanks to Passionate Penny Pincher for her help in compiling them:

Buy 1 SpeedStick GEAR Deodorant at $4, Get $2 ECBs (Limit 2)
Use $2/1 printable available 4/23
Free after coupon and ECBs

Buy 2 L'Oreal Advanced Shampoo at $4, Get $4 ECBs (Limit 1)
Use $4/2 coupon from the 4/10 RedPlum insert (exp 4/23)
Free after coupon and ECBs

Buy 2 Brookside Candy Bar at $1, Get $1 ECBs (Limit 1)
Use $.50/2 coupon from the 4/23 SmartSource insert
$0.25 each after coupon and ECBs

Buy 1 Colgate Optic White, Sensitive or Enamel Toothpaste at $3.99, Get $2.50 ECBs (Limit 1)
Use $0.50/1 coupon from the 4/23 SmartSource insert
$0.99 after coupon and ECBs

Buy 3 SoftSoap Hand Soap (7.5 oz) at $2, Get $3 ECBs (Limit 1)
$1 each after ECBs

Buy 2 Tom's of Maine Deodorant or Toothpaste at $4, Get $2 ECBs (Limit 1)
Use $2/2 coupon from the 4/23 RedPlum insert
Submit for $1/1 Ibotta Rebate
$1.50 each after coupon and ECBs

Buy 1 Persil Laundry Detergent at $4.34, Get $1 ECBs (Limit 1)
Use $1/1 coupon from the 4/3 coupon from the RedPlum insert
$2.34 after coupon and ECBs

Buy 1 CVS Diapers at $8.99, Get $5 ECBs (Limit 1)
$3.99 after ECBs

Spend $12, Get $4 ECBs (Limit 1)

*Deal Idea*
Buy 2 Tresemme Shampoo or Dove Dry Shampoo – $4
Buy 2 Suave Shampoo – $3
Use $3/2 coupon from the 3/20 RedPlum insert
Use $1.50/1 coupon from the 3/20 RedPlum insert
Pay $8 out of pocket, Get $4 ECBs
$1 each after coupon and ECBs

Spend $30, Get $10 ECBs (Limit 1)

*Deal Idea*
Buy 4 Huggies Diapers – $8.99
Use $2/1 printable
Pay $27.96 out of pocket, Get $10 ECBs
$4.49 each after coupon and ECBs

Spend $30, Get $10 ECBs (Limit 1)

*Deal Idea*
Buy 2 Brawny (6 pk) – $5
Buy 2 Quilted Northern Toilet Paper (9 ct) – $5
Buy 1 ALL Laundry Detergent – $2.99
Buy 2 Colgate Twin Pack – $4.99 Buy 1, Get 1 50% OFF
Use $1/1 printable 
Use $0.55/1 printable
Use $2/1 coupon from the 4/23 SmartSource insert
Use $1/1 coupon from the 4/23 RedPlum insert
Pay $22.37 out of pocket, Get $10 ECBs
$1.76 each after coupons and ECBs

Other Deals

Ajax Soap – $0.88
Use $0.25/1 coupon from the 4/17 SmartSource insert
Use $0.38/1 coupon from the CVS machine
Submit for $0.25/1 Ibotta Rebate
Free after coupons and rebate

New to shopping at CVS? Be sure to check out my CVS 101 post that gives you the full scoop on how to get the best bargains at CVS. See the full list of deals at CVS this week here.

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Walgreens: Deals for the week of April 17-23, 2016


Here are the best deals at Walgreens this week, with thanks to Passionate Penny Pincher for her help with compiling these:

Register Rewards

Buy 1 Mars Snickers Crispers (10 oz) at $3, Get $3 Register Rewards
Free after Register Rewards

Buy 3 Suave Shampoos at $2.99, Get $2 Register Rewards
Use $2/2 printable or $1.50/1 coupon from the 3/20 RedPlum insert (exp 4/17)
$0.82 each after coupon and Register Rewards

Buy 1 Colgate Toothpaste (2 pk), Mouthwash or Toothbrushes (2 pk) at $5.99, Get $2 Register Rewards
Use $2/1 coupon from the 4/17 SmartSource insert
$1.99 after coupon and Register Rewards

Other Deals In Ad

Chex Mix (8 oz) – $1.50
Use $1/1 printable
Submit for $0.50/2 Ibotta Rebate
$0.25 after coupon and rebate

Buy 2 Scott Naturals Paper Towels (6 Rolls) – $4.99, Get $2 Ccatalina
Use $0.55/1 printable
Use $1/1 Walgreens coupon from the April Booklet
$2.44 after coupons

New to shopping at Walgreens? Be sure to head over and check out Walgreens 101 where I explain in detail how to maximize the mileage of your money at Walgreens. See the full list of deals at Walgreens this week over at Passionate Penny Pincher.

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Rite Aid: Deals for the week of April 17-23, 2016


Here are the best Rite Aid deals this week, with thanks to Shannon for her help in compiling them. If you are new to shopping at Rite Aid or have questions about their coupon policy, click here.

Lipton Tea Bags, 40-100 ct, or Iced Tea Mix, 25.1 oz, Domino Granulated Sugar, 4 lb, or Big Win Honey, 12 oz – 2/$7
Use Buy One Get One Free printable 
$1.75 each after coupon

Beneful Dog Food, 3.5 lb – $5.99
Use Buy One Get One Free coupon from the 2/28 SmartSource insert
$2.99 each after coupon

Kleenex, 85 ct – $0.99
Use $0.50/3 printable
Use $0.50/2 Checkout 51 Deposit
$0.66 each after coupon and deposit

Caress Body Wash, 12 or 13.5 oz, or Bar Soap, 2 pk – 2/$7
200 ($2.00) Plenti Points wyb 2, Limit 4
Use $1/1 coupon from the 3/20 RedPlum insert
$1.50 after coupon and points

Degree Antiperspirant/Deodorant, 2.6-3 oz, or Dove Women’s Antiperspirant/Deodorant, 2.6 oz – 2/$5
Use $1/1 coupon from the 4/17 RedPlum insert
$0.50 after coupon and points

See the full list of deals at Rite Aid this week here.

Find

Do you have your shopping trip planned or did you come up with a great deal scenario/idea? Just post about it on your blog and leave your link below. To make it easy for everyone to navigate quickly through the links, your link must link directly to your Rite Aid deals post. Links going to the homepage of your blog or any other part of your blog besides the direct link to your Rite Aid deals post will be deleted.

    
 

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