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How I Meal Plan and Grocery Shop Once a Month
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One of the Hardest Words to Say

It's almost the middle of December and life just might be pretty full and busy at your house. So tonight, I want to talk about something that's been on my heart this Christmas season… and that is about saying one of the hardest words to say.

What's the hardest word to say, you ask?

It's the word "no". It's such a small word but whether we learn to say it or not can make such a big difference in our life.

During the Christmas season, there can be so much going on. There are so many opportunities, so many seemingly necessary obligations, so many to-do's.

There are gifts to buy, parties to attend, gifts to wraps, presents to make, decorations to put up, Christmas cards to address and send, cookies to bake, menus to plan, traditions to keep, volunteer opportunities to participate in, Christmas programs to attend…

You can start to feel like, "There're just so much that I need to do!"

Which is why we've got to get good at saying "no".

I don't know about you, but I'm really good at saying yes. I love to help people. I have a really big heart. I love to start new projects. And I have a really optimistic personality - which means I often think I can take on more than I should! :)

The truth is also that I don't want to disappoint anyone. I want people to like me. And if I'm not careful, I can say "yes" to everything and everyone as a result.

But if I don't want to live life feeling completely stressed out and exhausted, I have to get good at saying "no".One of the Hardest Words to Say

As we go into a holiday season I want to challenge you to ask these three questions before you say "yes" to anything:

#1) Do I want to prioritize the time for this?

Look at your calendar. Think through your current commitments and responsibilities.

What time will this "yes" require? Is it worth prioritizing to make happen or is just not high on the priority list.

Last year, Kaitlynn didn't participate in the Christmas Figure Skating Program because we just didn't have the room in our calendar for all the extra practices it would require and she didn't really care one way or the other. This year, it was something she really wanted to do, so we rearranged a number of things to make it happen.

#2) Is this a good fit for our whole family during this season of life?

Guess what? Last year, maybe a certain commitment or tradition was a really good fit, but this year it's not. And that's totally okay. Don't feel like you have to do something this year because you did it last year.

For instance, some years we've sent Christmas cards out. This year, it's something I decided wasn't a good fit. I have complete peace and freedom and no guilt over that.

Last year, we didn't really put up many Christmas decorations. This year we did. My kids really wanted to and they asked if they could do all the decorating themselves!

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#3) What am I going to give up to do this?

There are always a cost when you say "yes" to something. You will have to say "no" to something else, even if you don't even realize that you're saying "no".

Maybe you're saying "no" to quiet, maybe you're saying "no" to sleep, maybe you're saying "no" to baking cookies with your kids because you're saying "yes" to doing something for someone else.

You have to count the cost for yourself and your family. What's going to matter in 25 years from now? What matters to you right now? What are your priorities?

All of life is a tradeoff. And we're not always going to make the right decisions but we'll make many more right decisions if we take time to ask ourselves these three questions before just saying "yes" without thinking.

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If you've asked this questions and you feel like you should say no, but you're struggling to actually say it, ask yourself "Why?" 

Are you wanting to say "yes" because it's something your family is excited about or it's something you love and it's going to fill up your tank? Or because you feel like God wants you to minister to that person or be involved in that opportunity? Or is it because you feel like you should or you saw someone else doing it and it looked like a good idea? Or is it out of guilt?

This weekend, I challenge you to give yourself permission to say "no" to the crazy obligations and frantic pace and say "yes" to rest and stopping to savor the beauty that is to be found in all the ordinary, every day moments.

Don't let busyness and to-do's squeeze, strangle, and squash out your joy. Because you only have one life to live.

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P.S. If you struggle with knowing when to say "yes" and when to say "no", I highly recommend Lysa TerKeurst's book, The Best Yes.

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:: Gretchen's $42 Grocery Shopping and Weekly Menu Plan

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Dillons

3 pkgs (3 lbs each) Ground Beef - Marked down to $3.99 each (I was excited to find this - we are stocked up on ground beef for a while now!)

1 Dillons Eggs - $2.76

2.56 lbs Bananas - $1.51, used $0.25/1 Checkout 51 rebate - $1.26 after rebate

2 Cucumbers - 2/$0.99

0.61 lbs Tomatoes - $0.91, used $0.50/1 Ibotta rebate - $0.41 after rebate

1 Hershey's Chocolate Syrup - Marked down to $0.50

1 can Bush's Kidney Beans - Marked down to $0.49

1 Goya Olive Oil - Marked down to $0.79

1 Kroger Sour Cream - $1

1 Kroger Cottage Cheese - $1

1 Kroger Half & Half - $1.59

2 Kroger Drumsticks - $1.60 & $1.66

1 Lettuce - $0.99

3 half gallons Milk - $1.25 each

Mega Sale Items (Buy 4, Get $4 off instantly): 

2 Minute Maid Orange Juice - $1.79 each, used 2 $0.55/1 printable AND $0.50/1 Ibotta rebate - $0.99 each after coupons and rebate

2 Kroger Ice Cream - $1.77 each, used $0.40/1 e-coupon AND $0.50/1 catalina coupon - $1.32 each after coupons

2 Bird's Eye Frozen Vegetables - $1.49 each, used 2 $1/1 printable - $0.49 each after coupons

2 pkgs Keebler Cookies - $1.49 each, used 2 $0.60/1 printable - $0.89 each after coupons

1 Danimal Smoothie Yogurts - $1.49

2 pkgs Kroger Shredded Cheese (16 oz each) - $2.49 each, used $0.75/1 Ibotta rebate - $2.11 each after rebate

1 C&H Sugar - $0.99

Total after sales, coupons and rebates: $42.08

Menu Plan for This Week

My husband did grocery shopping last week for me and bought a ton of fruits and vegetables. We're still using those up this week. :)

Breakfasts

Cereal x 3

Baked Oatmeal x 2

Bagels (from freezer) and Fruit

Toast & Eggs

Lunches

Macaroni & Cheese, Apple Slices

Peanut Butter & Jelly Sandwiches, Carrot Sticks

Tossed Salad, Cottage Cheese

Baked Potatoes

Veggies, Fruit, Crackers, Cheese x 2

Leftovers

Dinners

Baked Chicken Drumsticks, Tossed Salad

Chili, Banana Muffins

Taco Salad, Oranges

Meatloaf, Butterhorn Rolls, Green Beans

Meal from freezer

Pancakes, Eggs, Orange Juice

Hamburger Vegetable Soup, Crackers, Fruit

:: How I Meal Plan and Grocery Shop Once a Month

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Guest post from Renee of Tune My Heart Blog

I've recently grown to love meal planning and grocery shopping for the whole month at once… and while that might seem overwhelming to some of you, today, I'd like to share a few tips for those of you interested in giving it a try!

How I handle fresh produce:

Everyone's first question is probably, what about fresh produce? Confession: I "cheat" and make 1-2 extra Aldi stops each month, for fresh produce.

In my big monthly trip, I buy the following:

  • As much fruit for snacking as I think we'll eat before it goes bad.
  • Frozen green beans. (I stock up when the brand I like is on sale!)
  • Salad stuff & fresh broccoli or some other green veggies. We usually do one veggie with each dinner. So, we eat the salad stuff first, then the fresh green veggie, then the frozen ones. By this time in the month, I'll run to the store for produce only and repeat. Sometimes in one of these quick trips, I'll have to get some cheese, eggs, or milk.
  • Any produce needed for my first 2 weeks of meals. In my mid-month produce trip, I buy the rest of the produce for the rest of the meals for the month.

How I make my lists:

I would highly suggest finding a LOCAL blogger who lists all the local grocery ad's sale prices each week. Here's how I do it.

As you're making your grocery store list (for Walmart, or any store that price matches), write the quantity, price, and store next to the price-matching items so that you can easily tell the cashier the prices. Using an all-in-one list once a month makes it easier to plan a menu around the sales, rather than having to flip through all the Sunday ads each week.

How I meal plan with my calendar:

Every month, I sit down with my family calendar (already filled in for the month) and a blank meal planning calendar. MSM has several free meal planning calendars, and the one I use is also free to download.

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As I'm planning meals we want to eat, I check our family's calendar. Meal planning with my family planner on hand has saved us a lot of wasted food!

In fact, over the past few months, I've realized I really only need to cook about 3 times per week. Between other things going on, family dinners one night a week, and leftovers, we just don't need 6 or 7 meals per week.

Planning meals around our calendar saves time (no more last-minute store runs) and saves money (no more buying for meals you won't end up making or eating)!

How I plan meals with like ingredients:

I used to buy a large container of chicken broth or can of tomato sauce only to end up needing a small amount of it for a recipe. Then what? I'd forget about it, find it in the fridge weeks later, and throw it away.

By planning ahead, I can usually figure out how to plan several meals with similar ingredients, which is more cost efficient and less wasteful. (You could do this if you plan by the week or for 2 weeks at a time too!)

I really like My Fridge Food for finding recipes from what you have in your pantry or already on your grocery list.

How I deal with the extras each month:

This is the stuff that you don't really plan for, but you eat. Milk, cheese, nuts, baking ingredients, snack food, toiletries, and paper products to name a few. I just inventory our pantry and think through these things at the beginning of the month.

Here are a few examples from our family:

  • We go through 1 ½ - 2 gallons of milk a week. So I buy 6-8 gallons at the beginning of the month and freeze the ones we won't use. (Yes, you can freeze a whole gallon of milk and it won't explode!)
  • We also eat a lot of cheese. I buy 8-10 packages at the beginning of the month.
  • We go through one snack food item a month or less. So, instead of buying snacks each week, I buy a bag of pretzels, or a big container of goldfish at the beginning of the month and we eat it until it's gone. If you have teenagers, you'll probably need more than one bag of snack food. :)
  • My husband and I both like to snack on Trail Mix as an alternative to junk food.
  • I buy several boxes of whatever cereal is on sale the week I go - we probably go through a box or two per week. Sometimes, I just don't buy it so we're forced to eat healthier and cheaper breakfast options like oatmeal, eggs, or parfaits.
  • I also check the toilet paper, baby wipes, diapers, toothpaste, laundry detergent, etc.

How I make my grocery list by store section:

Whether your list has 9 categories or 2, organizing your list (approximately) by what's close to each other in the store lowers the chances that you'll be running back and forth trying to find what you forgot.

Take it from someone who's been there, done that, oh so many times!

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How I do freezer cooking:

One time, I attempted 20 freezer meals at once and hated it, but I do like having meals in the freezer for nights I don't feel like cooking, or if a friend needs a meal last minute. So every month, I put a couple of meals on the menu that are easy to double and freeze.

I always mark those meals "D&F" so I remember to double it and to buy double the ingredients at the beginning of the month.

One final tip…

I never take my kids with me on a once-a-month trip - it just takes too long!

I brought them once. Huge mistake. I'm still recovering. But, if, in a momentary lapse of judgment, you decide to attempt this monthly grocery trip with your children, bring them snacks, and plan for a treat at the end for good cooperating.

I've grown to really prefer once-a-month shopping. I love not having to fit a grocery store trip in with my kiddos every week. If you're not sure, ease into the crazy and try two weeks at a time. Good luck!

Renee Cook is a former music teacher turned stay-at-home mom blogger. She loves her family, other people & coffee. She writes on Tune My Heart Blog, about babies, budgeting, grace and everything in between.

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