Guest post from Andrea of Make This the Day My husband and I purchased our first home when we were 23 years old. With no kids in the picture, we weren't looking for anything fancy; we were thrilled to have a house that came with a refrigerator and central air conditioning! It was small, and we figured that we would live here for no more five years. Once we had kids, it would be time to move on to something bigger and better. Fast forward seven years and almost three kids later, and we are unexpectedly still here. Well-meaning friends and family often ask us when we will be moving… and they are usually surprised to hear that we don't currently have any plans to move. Here are a few reasons why we have decided to stick with our starter home for the time being: We Recognized Our Needs vs. Wants Our home is about 1300 square feet. It's not tiny, but the layout is awkward and boxy. The three bedrooms and 1.5 bathrooms are pocket-sized. I will be honest and say that I dream of a larger kitchen, an open floor plan, a finished basement, and two spacious full bathrooms. But when I step back to reevaluate, those are just wants at this point, not needs. Our Priorities Don't Allow for an Upgrade A priority for our family is for me to stay home with our kids. Living in a small house and not having a large monthly mortgage payment allows us to retain this priority. Our Smaller Home is Low Maintenance I do not enjoy decorating, cleaning, or organizing… so I am thankful that my small house makes these tasks seem more manageable. We have also been able to complete some major renovations on our home (including a new roof and a bathroom remodel) thanks to the fact that the spaces were so small and fairly inexpensive! Love Grows Even in Little Houses I want my family to be tight-knit. My big kids are cheerful and content in their shared bedroom, and I appreciate the nearness that our small house affords us even though we are cramped at times! I Don't Want My House to Own Me On the contrary, I want to own my house, completely. Over the years, we periodically threw extra cash at our mortgage and celebrated our 30th birthdays last year by using extra money in our savings to pay the remainder of the balance! Some people advised us against this decision by saying that we would be better off investing the money or using it for a down payment on an upgrade. But I will attest that it was one of the best decisions that we have ever made. We feel such greater financial freedom, and the increased cash flow is awesome! Also, since we know the sweet taste of being completely debt free, we are not in a hurry to acquire another mortgage. So What's Next For Us? As our kids and family grow, we recognize that a larger home may soon become a need rather than a want. We hope to use the next few years to save money for a larger home - our ultimate goal would be to pay for our next home in cash, or to have a very tiny mortgage. We are looking forward to working towards that goal! Andrea is a stay-at-home mommy to two, soon to be three, blessings and happily married to her college sweetheart. She blogs about mommy things, homeschooling, and life at Make This the Day. photo source |